I looked up
at the sky as the rain falling to the ground. My mind drifted to the person
once I shared it with. The person who’s going to leave me soon. The person that
I fell in love with.
It’s like
everybody left me these days. I wondered was it me the problem. Was I too
clingy so people could not stay long around me? Was I too needy they felt sick because
of me?
But I know I
wasn’t the problem with him. He needed to leave. I understood his decision. I
did.
I had sworn
to myself that I would not fall in love with anyone. It didn’t worth it. The
pain would crush me if not kill me. And I could not afford being thrown in to
the same pit as I did before. But then he came. He turned my world upside down.
He was sincere, he was sweet, he was beautiful how could I not fall in love
with such a creature?
So I did.
At first, I
told myself that this was a pretend, that none of this was real, I could come
out of this without even a scratch. That was just some excuse my heart made to
shut my brain up—my brain, the rational one—that was shouting warnings at
me. But even then he was able to shut that
little rational part left of me. Didn’t I told you he turned my world upside
down?
I remembered
everything; how he made me laugh when I didn’t even want to smile, those silly
fights we had and the made up and the made out that followed, how he called me
beautiful even when I felt like a shit, how he accepted me the way I was, how
he loved me when I didn’t even love myself.
I used to
think that I was worthless. I didn’t deserve to be loved. I didn’t deserve to
be happy. Then he came. He was just as insecure as I was. But with him I
learned how to love myself, how to embrace the goods and the bads. He made me
feel loved, he made me feel special. And I loved to know that I did the same to
him. Together we changed each other to the better. We brought the best out of
each other. We fit like two broken pieces; stronger when we were together,
breaking when we were apart.
I wanted to
make him laugh for the rest of the time, I wanted to hug him, tell him I love him for the eternity but relationship
had its expired date, and ours had finally came. The deadline’s hanging in the
air, so close to reach, so far from being ready.
When you
started a relationship, it’s shorta kinda becoming your habit. You couldn’t go
to sleep before you get a goodnight text from him. Your day wouldn’t start
before he said good morning. You were so used to his presence everyday, the
affection was just getting stronger. And when it was all over, it was hurt.
Because you can’t change your habit
in an instant. They used to be everywhere but then they were nowhere. They’re
gone. The thing you used to do stopped and what’s left? It’s hard to change a habit.
Suddenly, an
intro from a song on the radio caught my attention. It was the song I’d been
played a lot lately, the lyrics held a magnificent mean that just described how
I felt about him. What I wished for him. So I turned up the volume, and I sang
along.
I know he
didn’t like music, but I hope he heard me right now, wherever he was, whatever
he was doing, I hope my tremble voice reached him, and he knew how much I cared
about him. He could feel me, he said once, I hope he felt me now.
Rascal Flatts- My Wish
I hope the
days come easy and the moments pass slow
And each road leads you where you want to go
And if you’re faced with the choice and you have to choose
I hope you choose the one that means the most to you
And if one door opens to another door closed
I hope you keep on walkin’ ‘til you find the window
If it’s cold outside, show the world the warmth of your smile
But more than anything, more than anything
My wish for you
Is that this life becomes all that you want it to
Your dreams stay big, your worries stay small
You never need to carry more than you can hold
And while you’re out there gettin’ where you’re gettin’ to
I hope you know somebody loves you
And wants the same things too
Yeah, this is my wish
I hope you never look back but you never forget
All the ones who love you
And the place you left
I hope you always forgive and you never regret
And you help somebody every chance you get
Oh, you find God’s grace in every mistake
And always give more than you take
But more than anything, yeah more than anything
And each road leads you where you want to go
And if you’re faced with the choice and you have to choose
I hope you choose the one that means the most to you
And if one door opens to another door closed
I hope you keep on walkin’ ‘til you find the window
If it’s cold outside, show the world the warmth of your smile
But more than anything, more than anything
My wish for you
Is that this life becomes all that you want it to
Your dreams stay big, your worries stay small
You never need to carry more than you can hold
And while you’re out there gettin’ where you’re gettin’ to
I hope you know somebody loves you
And wants the same things too
Yeah, this is my wish
I hope you never look back but you never forget
All the ones who love you
And the place you left
I hope you always forgive and you never regret
And you help somebody every chance you get
Oh, you find God’s grace in every mistake
And always give more than you take
But more than anything, yeah more than anything
My wish for
you
Is that this life becomes all that you want it to
Your dreams stay big, your worries stay small
You never need to carry more than you can hold
And while you’re out there gettin’ where you’re gettin’ to
I hope you know somebody loves you
And wants the same things too
Yeah, this is my wish
This is my wish
I hope you know somebody loves you
May all your dreams stay big
Is that this life becomes all that you want it to
Your dreams stay big, your worries stay small
You never need to carry more than you can hold
And while you’re out there gettin’ where you’re gettin’ to
I hope you know somebody loves you
And wants the same things too
Yeah, this is my wish
This is my wish
I hope you know somebody loves you
May all your dreams stay big
I was
sobbing by the end of the song, and my heart just ached so bad. They said time
would heal the pain but what I wanted right now was just to yank my heart out
and replace it with a new one. Anything, to free me from this pain.
I wanted to
call him, but I knew it wouldn’t change a thing. He was probably busy now, and
I didn’t want to disturb him and bring all my pain to him. He didn’t deserve to
be hurt.
So I took my
pen, and started to write a poem for him. Because sometimes, writing sounds
louder than speaking.
When this is over
I hope you’ll remember
How better we were together
Put it in a frame that will last forever
When this is over
I hope you’ll remember
How you used to call me boo
And how much I love you
When this is over
I hope you’ll keep me in your heart
Even though we’re so far apart
When this is over
And you look up at the sky
I hope you’ll remember me by
Put a smile on your face
Knowing I will follow your pace
And I wish you the best in life
When this is over
You know I’ll keep you close to my heart
You’ve came into my life and became its best part
I’ll put a bookmark in our chapter
So I can always remember
All the love and the laughter
Dear Sam
This is my goodbye
But I’ll wait you for our next “Hi”